tell me why im waiting for someone that doesnt even give a fuck about me

'People mistakenly search for love, satisfaction, and security in sex when, in fact, sex should be a natural result of a loving, secure, and satisfying relationship. 'By waiting to have sex, you allow yourself the opportunity to decide if someone can truly build a long-term, meaningful connection with you and be a worthy and committed partner,' therapist and Three Day Rule matchmaker Christie Tcharkhoutian told INSIDER.

A real partner will respect your wishes and come to a compromise with you about a time-frame and level of commitment you're both comfortable with. Sometimes, the less kind among us can say one thing in order to get what they want, and their intentions may not be so pure.

If you're a person who only wants to have sex with someone you're in a committed relationship with, the best way to do that is to wait until you feel some commitment from that person first before you take the plunge. This will come as a shock to all of you, most likely, but newsflash: people lie and people can change their minds. Alice : So I go, Im waiting for a man to come in here and fuck me. You can make sure the person does want a relationship. Im not saying I would go out with someone who used this on me, but Im not saying I wouldnt. Theres a moment, theres always a moment, I can do this, I can give into this.

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Tell me why im waiting for someone that doesnt even give a fuck about me